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5 Valentine’s Day Flirtatious Facts

Surprise your sweetie this Valentine’s Day with chocolates, roses, and a few morsels of knowledge.

Every Feb. 14, men and women (but mostly men) are expected to express their affection for their significant other by “surprising” them with gifts of flowers, candy, jewelry, dining and greeting cards in the annual love-fest known as Valentine’s Day.

Although the exact roots of Valentine’s Day are unknown, historians speculate that once upon a time — we’re talking third century AD here  — the Roman emperor forbade young soldiers to wed, believing that single men made better fighters. However, a rebel bishop named Valentine continued to wed young couples in secrecy. Eventually he was discovered and put to death, but not before writing a note to the jailer’s daughter, which was signed, “From your Valentine.”

Whether or not Bishop Valentine was actually murdered on Feb. 14 remains a mystery, but that particular day was declared Valentine’s Day some 220 years after the clergyman’s death sentence.

Here are a few fun facts about how Valentine’s Day evolved over the last few centuries:

1. We eat chocolate on Valentine’s Day because in the old days, it was supposed to inspire love. We’ve all heard that chocolate is an aphrodisiac, and while that may be true, the candy ritual is far older than that. In medieval times, women would eat sweet and sometimes bizarre food -- including chocolate -- the night before Valentine’s Day. This was supposed to inspire dreams in which they would envision their future spouse.

2. Cupid is misrepresented by Valentine’s Day. The original Cupid was a demigod in Roman mythology; he was the son of Venus, goddess of beauty and love. Over centuries, Christianity mingled with the old belief system, and Cupid was reduced to a cherub, one of the choirs of angels -- which is why these days he is only found stamped on Valentine’s Day apparel as a chubby baby sporting a bow and arrow and impossibly tiny wings.

3. The first mass-produced Valentine’s Day cards were produced in the 1840s. The invention of this time-honored tradition is credited to a woman by the name of Esther Howland of Massachusetts, who developed a successful business by making Valentines out of lace, paper and floral décor. She is often referred to as “the Mother of the American Valentine.”

4. Richard Cadbury created the first box of Valentine’s Day chocolate. Another Valentine pioneer of the 1800s, Richard Cadbury cashed in on the holiday by using his father’s chocolate company to create the first marketed box of love-symbolizing candy. Although, Cadbury’s motives might have been two-fold -- doctors of the same era often prescribed chocolate to patients who were suffering from heartbreak.

5. The rose is not just popular for its color. Sure, red is technically the color of Valentine’s Day -- and love in general, I suppose -- but there’s another reason why we give roses on V-Day. It turns out that the rose was the favored flower of Venus, Roman goddess of love and mother of the modernly-forsaken Cupid.

Have a happy Valentine’s Day!

Author’s Note: Information provided by history.com and nationalgeographic.com.

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Jenna May 19, 2013 at 08:51 pm
He sounds really creepy to me also, but I don't think it's illegal. Good for you for being observantRead More though.
Thomas Perez May 19, 2013 at 08:10 pm
"but this kind of guy won't stop this behavior...he'll just change his tactics". How doRead More you know that?!You are creating criminals. They used to call it a "witch hunt". I like looking at women when they're scantily dressed in bikini's in "PUBLIC" places like at the beach and i would definitely be checking them out if i had a pair of binoculars in my hand! The old hit song "I'm A Girl Watcher" comes to mind :) Does that make me a criminal perverted creeper worthy of having the police called on me possibly detained and arrested even? Maybe you should try minding "YOUR" own business and get a life would you. Being vigilant in the community is a good thing but creating scenarios against law abiding citizens is not. Maybe the ogler is a hired private detective? YOU don't know. In America you are innocent until proven guilty.....I have a question for the author; Do you get along with and are liked by your neighbors?
Anna Marie May 19, 2013 at 02:33 pm
Actually, pretty sure what he is doing is NOT illegal. If anyone has ever watched Stanley Roberts onRead More 'People Behaving Badly', he makes a point of noting that if you are in public, you are subject to being observed -- heck, even recorded! -- whether or not you are aware of it, and even if you object to it. At least the guy isn't recording it on his iPhone and posting it on Youtube, which would technically be his right. Frankly, I'm with Craig. If people are making out heavily enough on the beach to attract prurient interest (no, I DON'T consider public near-sex 'reasonably normal') ...then they're more likely the ones doing something illegal. Heck, maybe knowing this guy is out there staring will discourage people from getting it on where other people have to see it. Personally, I'd rather see a fully dressed guy with binoculars out on the beach. (And....wait, isn't watching HIM watching people kind of creepy, too?) Honestly, I somehow doubt Alameda is so free of crime that people should really call 911 for some guy staring at people making out. It's meant for people having heart attacks, accidents, and time-sensitive criminal activity.
Gevin Says May 19, 2013 at 11:57 pm
Jeff - It's GEVIN NOT GAVIN
Jenna May 19, 2013 at 08:59 pm
I lived on the West End twenty years ago, and lived there when the base closed. It's much betterRead More than it was, with more inviting places (to me anyway) than before. I drove down Broadway in Oakland today and the City has added some really nice hanging flower baskets. They are going to look spectacular later this summer. Maybe the City could do something like that on Webster. As if they have extra money for stuff like that, but one can hope. The baskets are up high so they are beyond the reach of ordinary vandals.
Anna Marie May 19, 2013 at 07:10 pm
Maybe it's inevitable, that where you have people living, as opposed to people shopping, there willRead More be less glitz and glamour? If the liquor stores and pizza joints and discount shops are still there, perhaps it's because they're what people want/need. Thinking further, if so many of the businesses on Webster are still there after all this time, and the shops on Park Street are a revolving-door...what DOES that say?
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Vicster May 18, 2013 at 08:36 am
I'm so glad he hadn't wandered away! I bike home from the ferry along Santa Clara and I kept an eyeRead More out for him. Sounds like he had himself a nice time, the cheeky monkey!
Analisa Harangozo (Editor) May 17, 2013 at 05:51 pm
Yay! I'm glad! Thanks for the update Suzanne.
Suzanne Chenier May 17, 2013 at 05:48 pm
Found!!! He followed me into my downstairs neighbor's house. I went to borrow some eggs. My neighborRead More was at work. I didn't know he followed me in, didn't see or hear him, got the eggs and left. I called that brat for over three hours. He raided my neighbor's garbage can and a bachelor nap on his sofa! Yay. I'm glad he's home and safe. Thank you everyone.
Jenna May 19, 2013 at 08:48 pm
I absolutely wish we had some beach frontage in Alameda for the dogs to enjoy the water, but no wayRead More would I take them onto the beach when it's not allowed. The signage is perfectly clear and the fine is probably several hundred dollars.Instead we head up to Point Isabel or Albany Bulb. I've counted 25 dogs in the water on a really nice day at Point Isabel. We're going to Disneyland!
Lion's Mane May 18, 2013 at 03:31 pm
Good point, Gevin! Forgot about the dog park!! Recently a woman with a big, off-leash Rott stoodRead More by and watched him take a huge dump at the water's edge, then she continued on her way without cleaning it up. The park police got here in time and paid her a visit, and she was none to happy about that...made my day. Unfortunately, a family with 2 little kiddos set up their blanket right in front of the Rottie's toilet spot shortly after she walked away, and I'm sure the kids were all over it. The no-dogs allowed ruling was probably inspired, at least in part, by irresponsible pet owners like her.
Gevin Says May 18, 2013 at 12:54 pm
Especially since there is a special DOG PARK just for your little Poopsie to play too!
Anna Marie May 19, 2013 at 02:46 pm
If we have money issues in the city, and we probably shouldn't shake stranger's kids to make themRead More behave, however tempting it is -- how about instituting a fine for littering? And maybe use the money it raises to add a few more trash bins along the streets, as encouragement.
Gevin Says May 18, 2013 at 01:08 pm
I would say it's the school's responsibility, but it all starts at home. How you are raised, howRead More you act, and how children around you watch how you act. If you do something wrong, and a child see's it, they may think it's okay to do it since they saw a grown up do it.
jason schabert May 17, 2013 at 12:01 am
sorry but the photo wasn't uploaded
Kimberlee MacVicar May 17, 2013 at 02:36 pm
Thanks for the info about your experience. I'm starting to hear the same story from about 7 peopleRead More now and I'm sure there are more. Store has been closed all week. Still no sign on the door. At a loss as to what to do to find out what's going on or what to do next.
bette page May 17, 2013 at 07:01 am
Good luck with that. I stopped patronizing them a year ago after some shifty practices with my highRead More end items: wouldn't give me a receipt and then my items sat untagged for three weeks. Completely missed the xmas shopping season.
photo originally posted by Dennis Domingo
Analisa Harangozo (Editor) May 15, 2013 at 07:15 pm
Carol, posted this on Facebook and got some responses so far:Read More https://www.facebook.com/AlamedaPatch/posts/666500700043838?comment_id=32723444&offset=0&total_comments=2
An accident occurred Monday, May 13 on Westline/8th Street turning into Crown Beach. Credit: Jessica McMahon
Carol Parker May 15, 2013 at 11:02 am
It is really dangerous coming out of the dog park/tennis court parking lot. We never try to turnRead More left coming out of it, always right - and even then you have to be super careful because cars just come speeding down the street.